Am I crazy for thinking this is insanely rude?I just now found out that FFIL's cousin has invited himself, his wife, and his daughter. FI doesn't even KNOW them. I am NOT HAPPY. The guest list was set according to who we actually knew and how much I can afford (considering that I'm paying for the whole thing), and now, 37 days to go and I find out we have 3 uninvited guests. The bride and groom are fighting over it--the groom's father is just saying he "tried to talk them out of it"--and I'm still at the stunned stage, that anyone would even think of doing that!Then when I tried to talk to my daughter about it she said I can fight it out with groom's dad, she's out of it. I got even more mad, because after a year of "it's my wedding" (did I mention I'm paying for the whole thing?), we hit something that's not fun, and she's out of it? WTF is that?! I've told all of them that it's too late for me to jump in on this one, but if anymore uninvited guests pop up, refer them to me because I'm telling them no. I don't care if his distant (so distant he's never met them) think his FMIL is a cheap B****. Am I wrong here? I shouldn't let the guest list grow like this, should I ?