Moms and Maids
Advice for the almost daughter in law
Dear Mothers, Please send me your advice! My soon-to-be mother-in-law does not talk to me! The day after our engagement, my future husband went to tell his parents, and they said we could not be engaged until after his younger brother. His brother got engaged that night- we all celebrated with champagne and hugs. Two weeks later, we announced our engagement and nothing. His mother went from calling and emailing me every week to only going though her son to talk to me about anything. We have been engaged for over 3 months and have less than 3 months until the wedding, and no one from his immediate family has acknowledged the engagement or mentioned the wedding to me. I am expected to bake for his brother's wedding (3 months after ours), but have no desire since his family has not welcomed me. She told my fiance to have me in town early enough to bake; I was sitting nest to him when she said this. I want to be a part of his family, not just the woman in the kitchen married to her son. How do I approach the situation since my fiance does not want to upset his mother? Thank you!
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