ok so basically i wld describe myself as easy going and a very good friend. since i started planning my wedding i had my four bridesmaids and it was all good. except i grew sorta apart with this one bridesmaid and we still hung out but not as much, i learned her true colors as the wedding stuff and planning started happening she would talk trash on everyone not make our invitation party it wasn't good. anyway to make a long story short my MOH threw an amazing bridal shower this past weekend for me and she was there and knew i guess we were all going out afterwards..and told me she was tired and wanted to go home..and i said ok...well later i see whe went to a party and posted multiple photos on facebook. i texted her the next day and said ya know that i had wished she would of come out with the maids and friends and it hurt she went to a party?? well anyway she responded IM DONE WITH YR WEDDING YOU AND EVERYTHING don't ever contact me ever again IM RETURNING THE DRESS ETC...i really was confused by that shocked mostly. so i mean i guess its good if she's like that that she's not in it but it really threw me for a loop.
now i have 3 bridesmaids and i wld like another girl but i don't know - i don't want drama and this girl is not drama but is financially strapped on cash...so i don't know what to do...i guess im looking for your thoughts on GIRLS who leave wedding parties for no good reason and if i shld ask the girl i really want too even if i know money is tight!
thanks in advance!