I am broken hearted because my bff since junior high wants to be one of my wedding vendors instead of my MOH. (She has a job where she works with weddings all the time) I sort of understand that she thinks she will be giving me this great gift, but I just can't imagine her not being by my side the whole day, and I just can't imagine who will take her place as MOH.
I have only approached her about this jokingly, like "if you're working my wedding who will be my moh?" and she always replies with a laugh like she thinks I 'm joking, and she thinks it's just expected that she will work my wedding because it is her job! Of course she would be doing it for free but I would rather her be in my bride room with me, by my side at the altar, at my table with me and dancing crazy on the dance floor with me!
Is there any way in the world I can make her understand w/o hurting her feelings or making her think i think her work is crummy?