I've always got along quite well with my fmil until ofcourse we got engaged. Now she gives of the vibe that she's unsatisfied of this occasion. I'm not sure if its just she's the mother of boys so its not as momentus I guess. But as I start making plans like the venue, ceremony, etc I feel like she should be involved. But I will in no way force the issue and my fiance doesn't talk much about the wedding in any way. I don't live close to her so I don't know how to approach the issue and involve her. Or atleast find out if she cares to be involved?