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Maid help

Punkin99Punkin99
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I asked a friend to be a BM in our wedding. I know the only responisbility is to get your dress and show up....So what if the BM hasn't ordered the dress? I gave her a months notice to order and today was the last day to order. All the other 6 BM have placed their order. Can I be stern with her and tell her she is no longer welcome to be in the wedding. I know that I am planning my wedding but it's hard to plan plus constatnly call her and ask her to order it. Please give me advice on what to say to her or what to do?
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  • Punkin99Punkin99
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    edited December 2011
    That sounds like the perfect thing to do! Thank you!
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  • hlq2011hlq2011
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    edited December 2011
    Your wedding is six months away.  Your bridesmaid should have some time to order her dress; it's a bit early to be getting on her case about it.
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  • sarah42ndsarah42nd member
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    edited December 2011
    She said today was the last day to order it.
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  • aerinpegadrakaerinpegadrak member
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    edited December 2011
    Last day to order, or last day to order without rush fees?  I find it hard to believe that there's no possible way to get this dress in the next six months.
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  • kbsmom1kbsmom1 member
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    edited December 2011
    agreed that you should call one last time and say today is last day and let that be it......as far as dress ordering.....yes the store may be early in ordering.....maybe the dress is on the verge of discontinuing or a seasonal change....
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  • graysquirrelgraysquirrel member
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    edited December 2011
    I would give her a date and then let it be up to her. I know that it would be really frustrating, but it really helps you to look blameless if you leave it up to her. If she doesn't get her dress, then she looks like the idiot, not you. Give her a deadline and just sit tight.
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