Help! It has recently come to my attention that my mom is expecting to come to my bachelorette party. It will be out of town, and no other moms or other people her age will be attending that she could "hang out" with after dinner and the "mom-firendly" early part of the night. I really don't want to hurt her feelings, but she isn't the type of mom that would fit in at a bachelorette party with my friends and I. My sister is my maid of honor and is refusing to say anything to my mom about it because she doen't want to hurt mom's feelings AND my mom has now offered to pay for it, and this would take the financial burden off of my sister. How do I gently tell my mom that I would rather not have her there???