So my maid of honor and i go to college together. She is my suitemate so our rooms share a bathroom. Before we always saw each other but this year between her boyfriend and just her quirky flaky personality she is never around. This isn't I problem I knew this. But now it's holiday break and they were supposed to order the shoes. I've gotten confirmation from all my girls except her. I would just wait till we all get back but she was thinking about switching dorms. I have facebooked her, txted her, called her and left her voice mails (mind you all of these took place over a 5 week time span). And she hasn't responded to 1! I don't know how to track her or how to make it clear to her I'm annoyed by her just dropping off the face of the earth without sounding like a totally b!tch. ....ugh...any suggestions to help me w/ her and being a sternly irritated polite person?