Okay so sorry if this goes on and on ... but I have a friend, whom I am not very close with and so when I went and choose my bp, I choose my friends I was closest to and my cousin (who I spent many many summers and school breaks with when we were little) and my Fiance's sister (whom I have been fortunate enough to know since she was 11 years old) and I didn't chose my other friend to be a bridesmaid and now she just goes on and on about how she put me in her wedding, even though I was out of state because we were best friends (at the time, unfortunately we aren't anymore) and how it was such a hard decision and she had to run the risk of upseting her family for not choosing her other cousins and possible ruin a friendship because she choose me over the other two girls.
I had never asked her to be a BM before my Fiance and I made the decision to have only 4 for each side. However, I did ask her if she would allow her daughter (who'll be 4 in time for the wedding) to be my flowergirl, I mean frankly if the roles were reversed I'd be honored that my daughter was being asked to be the flower girl despite not being asked to be a bm ...
And need I mention every chance she gets she reminds of how I apparently ruined her wedding? She claims I was a major bridesmaidzilla (I wasn't, I didn't even put my two cents in on the dress, I told her what dress do you like best, it's your wedding, what type of updo do you want me to have, how do you want me to do my makeup) ... I'm sorry it's just really stressful ... and I think it would only be worse if I hadn't asked her daughter to be my flower girl! I'm sorry I didn't mean to go off like this but it really pisses me off! Everyone should be old enough to know that you can't include everyone in your wp ... you have to make some deep cuts and sometimes they hurt but I would hope we'd all be old enough to not continously go on and on about it ...