Hi again,
Many of you commented on an earlier post I made asking for advice about a sticky situation. My mom had told me she is very uncomfortable with my asking my sister (dad's daughter from a previous marriage) to my small 40-person wedding.
Last weekend I sat down to talk with her. I explained that I really want to invite my sister,and that since I am inviting my mom's daughters from previous marriages she shouldn't mind, and that she wouldn't have to talk with my sister except to say "Hi, nice to see you. Enjoy the buffet."
She was completely irrational and told me she is not going to attend my wedding if my half-sister is there. She even cornered my fiance and told him that she will do "anything" in the world for me and that she loves me very much but will not be coming to the wedding if we invite J*******.
I am so completely disappointed in my mom and pissed off that she is trying to manipulate my decision by giving me an ultimatum.
On the one hand, I feel like telling my mom where to stick it and telling her not to bother coming to the wedding.
Then again, perhaps I should just give in and explain to my sister that I can't invite her in order to smooth this over.
But both my fiance and I are concerned that if we give in now, my mom will think she can have us do anything she wants just by threatening not to come to the wedding.
Help!