Moms and Maids

MOH. Sister or BFF

I have all of the people picked out to be in my wedding party. The trouble is deciding if my BFF of Sister should be my MOH. I want to pick my BFF because I know she wants to do it and will have the time to and not complain about what I pick out and want to do. My sister has a 6 month old who will be one of the FG.  But she had mentioned to the BM that she will be walking with him down the aisle. Is it tacky to make one a Co. MOH? I will be having 3 brides maids 1 junior brides maid and 2 flower girls.

Re: MOH. Sister or BFF

  • AutumnFairAutumnFair member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_moms-maids_moh-sister-bff?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:357Discussion:6001341e-4999-4403-9374-aacc22e9aa21Post:ad454b9f-b5b0-4a68-b0eb-58fb993b8662">MOH. Sister or BFF</a>:
    [QUOTE]I have all of the people picked out to be in my wedding party. The trouble is deciding if my BFF of Sister should be my MOH. I want to pick my BFF because I know <strong>she wants to do it and will have the time to and not complain about what I pick out and want to do.</strong> My sister has a 6 month old who will be one of the FG.  But she had mentioned to the BM that she will be walking with him down the aisle. Is it tacky to make one a Co. MOH? I will be having 3 brides maids 1 junior brides maid and 2 flower girls.
    Posted by amandalee0830[/QUOTE]

    Please remember that MOH is not a job, it's an honor you give to the closest female attendent. But anyway, yes, it's totally fine in have 2 MsOH, I've been one in a couple of weddings and no one really thinks much of it so I think your alright in having them both if you want.
  • Cynthia1207Cynthia1207 member
    1000 Comments
    edited December 2011
    I agree with AutumnFair.  A MOH isn't a job.  It is perfectly acceptable to have 2 MOHs.  I have two girls in my BP.  One has a MOH title, the other a BM but to me it's just a title and makes absolutely no difference.  The only reason they are mentioned that way is because the MOH signs the witness paper, so to avoid any confusion...
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  • TootsieKTootsieK member
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    edited December 2011
    Sounds to me like you could have BFF as Maid of Honor (assuming she's unmarried) and sister as Matron of Honor.
  • Pookie05Pookie05 member
    10 Comments
    edited December 2011
    I don't see why not have too... or neither. I chose not to have a MOH because, well, I don't want to choose.
  • edited December 2011
    I have two MOH's nothing wrong with that
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