So my FI recently decided that he wants 3 GM total including bestman which was a bit stirring since we had originally agreed to a MOH and bestman. (However, it was my original idea to include these extra gentelmen from the beginning so I'm definitely not turning the idea down now!) Well, in my search for BMs I have been turned down since many of my friends are in other states and are unable to take off work. Most of my friends around here I have lost touch with because life has been crazy on their end and mine. I have a MOH and I need to come up with at least one more BM. My FMIL suggested maybe asking our preacher's daughter-in-law. I am semi-close to her and we get along well but I'm worried that it would be weird asking her since I have only known her for a little less than a year. Also, if I do choose her, how do I ask? I'm 60 days away!