Apologies if something like this has been posted before... but I just don't know what to do.
My mom is one that I thought would be all over helping me plan my wedding, but she isn't. Her and my dad aren't in a position financially to help us out, and we don't expect them to as we plan on paying for the wedding ourselves... afterall we live together already and have a child together. I understand that, as much as they would like to, they just can't help us out. I think my mom feels bad about that, or feels like she can't give her input because they can't pay. I have asked her opinion on many things, she was helpful before my dad said they couldn't help but now she is just withdrawn. I have forever been looking forward to having my mom help me. Any suggestions on how to approach this?