I am recently engaged and know exactly who I want to be my MOH BUT I have a very close group of friends who all have made references to them wanting to be my MOH. One other in particular who I am close with, I know will be very hurt by my decision. She is a great friend but gets very flustered and upset very easily and I just feel more comfortable with my selected MOH. Should I tell her and address the issue head on or should I just not say anything at all and ask her to be my bridesmaid and hope she gets the hint?