I am having a very small wedding, in which I am not having a wedding party.. It is immediate famnily only. Although my "best" friend is invited along with her husband and her parents. We have been friends forvever, and I have asked her to be my "Matron of Honor", knowing that she is pregnant.
At the time of the wedding she will be 3 weeks out from her due date. She will not be walking down the aisle nor standing. She has already told me that she is NOT giving any kind of speech b/c she doesnt want to stand up in front of everyone all fat and preg. She has not helped with one thing and she is so freaking self centered she is harrassing my other friends when my shower/ bacclortte will be so she can plan her damn baby classes! Not becuase she actually cares!
This in turn is making other friends angry because they thought she was going to help. But she just keeps saying 'your doing everything right?".
I have involved her in a lot of the stuff that a MOH would do: dress shopping, picking stuff out, she even went to one place and registered with me!
I have even done things with her. I am super excited that she is pregnant! SHe is an only child, so I am going to be the closest thing to an aunt to the baby.
I did ALL of her shower and bachlorette (sp?) stuff for her when I was in nursing school and working full time.
She's working full time, in school, trying to sell her house, and her husband is working out of town. I am not expecting her to drop everything for my wedding, just take 5 minutes to help someone with planning.
How do i approach this with her? Do I try to talk to her, or maybe write a letter? Or just let it go?