Moms and Maids
Choosing of Bridesmaids! Poor friends or opinionated sisters?
So I'm having some difficulty with deciding who will be in my bridal party and would like some advice please My FI is having 4 groomsmen (symmetry is not a huge concern for us though). I know who I would like to be my MOH and one bridesmaid. I have a two options for the rest of the bridal party: (1) inviting one friend that lives out of state who always is short on money and another friend who had asked me to be in her wedding party, but had a baby instead and is also very short on money OR (2) asking my 2 sisters and my FI sister (all of them are about 10 years older and married with children). I prefer my two friends because our 3 sisters are opinionated and tend to treat me as the "little sister" still; however, is it polite to give my friends an "opt out?" I don't want them to feel obligated to be in the bridal party because I know it can get expensive, especially since we are planning a destination bachelorette party. Decisions decisions...Please help