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  • vicki0508vicki0508 member
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    edited December 2011
    You need to stop talking to her about the wedding (aside from the cake).  If she starts to bring something up, just say you haven't made any decisions yet.  Alternatively, if you have already made decisions, let her know you made them and they are final.  And if she continues to try to talk about the wedding, change the subject.

    Maybe you also can have FI say something to her about backing off a little.

    ETA:  darn...should've quoted.  OP deleted while I was typing.
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  • ootmother2ootmother2 member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_moms-maids_help-8?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:357Discussion:8732bb1f-9710-4d96-af3c-a104ce9c28e9Post:cf0b9529-52cb-4d43-955d-6c1f8e00a2b8">Re: deleted</a>:
    [QUOTE]Dang it, nobody quoted. OP- deleting your post after you have received responses is very rude. People have taken the time to answer your questions. And there are a lot of lurkers around here so you never know when someone else may have the same question as you.
    Posted by MissySue20[/QUOTE]

    oh, come on,  You really want to reply to someone who names herself "babiegirl"
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  • lalap69lalap69 member
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    You're going to call her out for deleting while the first response was still being typed?  Really?  It seems clear that she just changed her mind about posting.
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  • lalap69lalap69 member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_moms-maids_help-8?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:357Discussion:8732bb1f-9710-4d96-af3c-a104ce9c28e9Post:cf0b9529-52cb-4d43-955d-6c1f8e00a2b8">Re: deleted</a>:
    [QUOTE]Dang it, nobody quoted. OP- deleting your post after you have received responses is very rude. People have taken the time to answer your questions. And there are a lot of lurkers around here so you never know when someone else may have the same question as you.
    Posted by MissySue20[/QUOTE]
    You know what else is rude?  Quoting someone who asked not to be quoted.  And then ignoring all the requests to delete that part of your post.
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  • vicki0508vicki0508 member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_moms-maids_help-8?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:357Discussion:8732bb1f-9710-4d96-af3c-a104ce9c28e9Post:fedd990b-84ed-41b7-a196-4d1374fefecc">Re: deleted</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: deleted : You know what else is rude?  Quoting someone who asked not to be quoted.  And then ignoring all the requests to delete that part of your post.
    Posted by lalap69[/QUOTE]
    I'm so glad you said this, because that entire post really made me mad.  It was so nice to have somebody say ahead of time they were going to delete, and then so many people quoted her!  I thought when missy was paged - on a board she frequents - that it would've solved the problem, but apparently not.
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  • bablingbrookebablingbrooke member
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    What's all this about?
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  • vicki0508vicki0508 member
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    edited December 2011
    Down in the "best friend" thread, the OP said that she was going to delete because the people in her post get on TK sometimes.  A few people quoted her anyway.  Everyone who quoted OP eventually went back and edited out their quotes, because she did delete.  Except Missy never edited hers. 

    Trix paged Missy over here asking her to edit her post, lala said something about it in this thread, and a little while ago I said something in a thread Missy started and was active in over on E, but she has ignored it.  I imagine she just hasn't noticed and isn't actively avoiding the situation.

    I guess I just like the fact that OP said she was going to delete, it wasn't a DD, so why not honor her wishes?
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  • bablingbrookebablingbrooke member
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    Ah, gotcha.  I remember there were a couple threads where multiple people quoted, despite the OP saying in the subject line that she was going to have to delete...I don't get it.  It reminds me of back before you could quote and a DD meant the whole thread was gone where people would repost every. single. DD. even if it was something as simple as, "Whoops, posted on the wrong board!" or got no responses.  Like here--obvi she changed her mind as soon as she posted, yet people call her out.  At a certain point it becomes petty, and that's why I'm kind of on an anti-DD crusade.  
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  • RiRi157RiRi157
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_moms-maids_help-8?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:357Discussion:8732bb1f-9710-4d96-af3c-a104ce9c28e9Post:81ebcfb3-442c-48e8-ba1b-1eb017d7570d">Re: deleted</a>:
    [QUOTE]Down in the "best friend" thread, the OP said that she was going to delete because the people in her post get on TK sometimes.  A few people quoted her anyway.  Everyone who quoted OP eventually went back and edited out their quotes, because she did delete.  Except Missy never edited hers.  Trix paged Missy over here asking her to edit her post, lala said something about it in this thread, and a little while ago I said something in a thread Missy started and was active in over on E, but she has ignored it.  I imagine she just hasn't noticed and isn't actively avoiding the situation. I guess I just like the fact that OP said she was going to delete, it wasn't a DD, so why not honor her wishes?
    Posted by vicki0508[/QUOTE]

    Missy has over 9000 posts in one year do you really think she hasn't noticed and isn't actively avoiding the situation.

    Missy is just being a you know what, she thinks she controls these boards with her 9000+ posts. 
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  • tldhtldh member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_moms-maids_help-8?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:357Discussion:8732bb1f-9710-4d96-af3c-a104ce9c28e9Post:f24a14b2-e107-49c1-a434-d37250523d4f">Re: deleted</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: deleted : Missy has over 9000 posts in one year do you really think she hasn't noticed and isn't actively avoiding the situation. Missy is just being a you know what, she thinks she controls these boards with her 9000+ posts. 
    Posted by RiRi157[/QUOTE]

    I agree that Missy should have deleted her quotes, but you haven't been here nearly long enough to make a judgment call on who Missy is as a person.
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  • ManwaithielManwaithiel member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_moms-maids_help-8?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:357Discussion:8732bb1f-9710-4d96-af3c-a104ce9c28e9Post:f24a14b2-e107-49c1-a434-d37250523d4f">Re: deleted</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: deleted : Missy has over 9000 posts in one year do you really think she hasn't noticed and isn't actively avoiding the situation. Missy is just being a you know what, she thinks she controls these boards with her 9000+ posts. 
    Posted by RiRi157[/QUOTE]

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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_moms-maids_help-8?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:357Discussion:8732bb1f-9710-4d96-af3c-a104ce9c28e9Post:fedd990b-84ed-41b7-a196-4d1374fefecc">Re: deleted</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: deleted : You know what else is rude?  Quoting someone who asked not to be quoted.  And then ignoring all the requests to delete that part of your post.
    Posted by lalap69[/QUOTE]

    I just now edited my response. I did not know OP requested not to be quoted. I am sorry, it was an honest mistake. However, I am not sure how much good it is going to do bc I was quoted by someone else.
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_moms-maids_help-8?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:357Discussion:8732bb1f-9710-4d96-af3c-a104ce9c28e9Post:f24a14b2-e107-49c1-a434-d37250523d4f">Re: deleted</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: deleted : Missy has over 9000 posts in one year do you really think she hasn't noticed and isn't actively avoiding the situation. Missy is just being a you know what, she thinks she controls these boards with her 9000+ posts. 
    Posted by RiRi157[/QUOTE]

    And yeah, there are plenty of ladies around here with way more posts than me that have been on TK the same amount of time or only a bit longer.

    And you don't know my work schedule and how much time I have to be on TK.
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  • bablingbrookebablingbrooke member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_moms-maids_help-8?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:357Discussion:8732bb1f-9710-4d96-af3c-a104ce9c28e9Post:bebe4c1b-9c27-4362-80b5-6f7b92e83980">Re: deleted</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: deleted : I just now edited my response. I did not know OP requested not to be quoted. I am sorry, it was an honest mistake. However, I am not sure how much good it is going to do bc I was quoted by someone else.
    Posted by MissySue20[/QUOTE]
    Quotes don't get quoted; it just picks up where the new text is.
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  • vicki0508vicki0508 member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_moms-maids_help-8?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:357Discussion:8732bb1f-9710-4d96-af3c-a104ce9c28e9Post:f24a14b2-e107-49c1-a434-d37250523d4f">Re: deleted</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: deleted : Missy has over 9000 posts in one year do you really think she hasn't noticed and isn't actively avoiding the situation. Missy is just being a you know what, she thinks she controls these boards with her 9000+ posts. 
    Posted by RiRi157[/QUOTE]
    And with those 9000 posts, she is on several boards.  It's completely within the realm of posibilities that she legitimately hadn't noticed.  Missy is a very nice person and didn't mean anything by not editing.  Honest mistake.  But thanks for your input.
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_moms-maids_help-8?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:357Discussion:8732bb1f-9710-4d96-af3c-a104ce9c28e9Post:f24a14b2-e107-49c1-a434-d37250523d4f">Re: deleted</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: deleted : <strong> </strong>Missy has over 9000 posts in one year do you really think she hasn't noticed and isn't actively avoiding the situation. Missy is just being a you know what, <strong>she thinks she controls these boards with her 9000+ posts. </strong>
    Posted by RiRi157[/QUOTE]

    Ummm-have you looked at my post count?  I promise you that I don't think I control the boards.  And although Missy is completely able to speak for herself, I know she doesn't think that way either.

    It's probably not the best way to introduce yourself to the boards:  by trashing regs.  Just a thought to keep in mind on your next post.

    And I swear:  probably 1K of my posts are "try posting this on a local area board....blah blah blah....."  =)
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  • mkruparmkrupar member
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    Missy they were talking about a thread futher down the page titled "Best Friend". You still have the OP quoted in there. This one didn't ask not to quote she just deleted before anyone responded.

    And RiRi157 WTH are you? Missy is probably one of the nicer girls on these boards and (I'm pretty sure) in no way thinks she "controls the boards". There are a lot of posters on here with that many posts. You have 13. Not a great way to start your TK board relationship.
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  • PolkaDotMinniePolkaDotMinnie member
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    RiRi157-
    While I realize that it may take a while for some to edit their responses I did not go around bashing missy because she didn't edit hers.. and I was the one who wrote the post. I am just thankful for all the advice that I got. I do hope that that post gets edited but it is not a big deal to me right now I just figure if someone reads it then I will deal with it. Thanks to these ladies advice I am a lot less stressed over the situation.. So my advice to you.. just calm down && don't judge.. They seem like peachy ladies.. 

    ETA: Just noticed she deleted it && wanted to say thank you.. 

    Ps.. See not everyone has all the time in the world.. its my post and I didn't even notice little things oops 
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_moms-maids_help-8?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:357Discussion:8732bb1f-9710-4d96-af3c-a104ce9c28e9Post:67ebc615-8b0b-4d6a-ad2b-269c22fc3309">Re: deleted</a>:
    [QUOTE]RiRi157- While I realize that it may take a while for some to edit their responses I did not go around bashing missy because she didn't edit hers.. and I was the one who wrote the post. I am just thankful for all the advice that I got. I do hope that that post gets edited but it is not a big deal to me right now I just figure if someone reads it then I will deal with it. Thanks to these ladies advice I am a lot less stressed over the situation.. So my advice to you.. just calm down && don't judge.. They seem like peachy ladies..  ETA: Just noticed she deleted it && wanted to say thank you..  Ps.. See not everyone has all the time in the world.. its my post and I didn't even notice little things oops 
    Posted by PolkaDotMinnie[/QUOTE]


    Yes, I did edit it. I am very sorry and it was an honest mistake on my part. I didn't mean any harm by it. There are some days when I am not around much and don't post on this board, so I honestly didn't see trix paging me, either.
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_moms-maids_help-8?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:357Discussion:8732bb1f-9710-4d96-af3c-a104ce9c28e9Post:521e1dd5-f605-4c16-a860-7966216b0dc3">Re: deleted</a>:
    [QUOTE]Missy they were talking about a thread futher down the page titled "Best Friend". You still have the OP quoted in there. This one didn't ask not to quote she just deleted before anyone responded. And RiRi157 WTH are you? Missy is probably one of the nicer girls on these boards and (I'm pretty sure) in no way thinks she "controls the boards". There are a lot of posters on here with that many posts. You have 13. Not a great way to start your TK board relationship.
    Posted by mkrupar[/QUOTE]

    Thanks for the kind words, mkrupar.
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  • PolkaDotMinniePolkaDotMinnie member
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    edited December 2011
    Oh no problem at all.. I wasn't worried at all I work 50 hour weeks and take classes part time I would never judge how much time someone has.. and sometimes you just don't think twice.. hope you have a good week everyone!
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