I guess I can start by saying that my mom and I have never had a great relationship, but thats whole other story. I was really hoping that wedding planning would help us to get closer. She is all about everyone else getting married and putting her ideas towards their weddings, however she wants nothing to do with mine. I've tried hard to get her excited, even tried to get her to talk about her own wedding but she wont. She calls me from work telling me all of the ideas that her co-workers have such as getting married on the beach or that she would pay to send us on a cruise and we could get married there. In suggesting far away places she's trying to get me not to get married in FI's town, he's catholic so were getting married in his church which is 2 hrs from my house. Every suggestion is about sending us away somewhere and its frustrating that she only wants to talk about it with her co-workers. I guess our wedding is a long way away, May 2013, however she could pretend to be excited. Has anyone else been through this? I guess she isnt obligated to be involved, but it sure would be nice. Any suggestions on how to get her excited? Sorry this was so long...
Thanks!