I am the maid of honor and hosting a bridal shower. The shower is next weekend and I haven't received many RSVP's. I don't want to be surprised the day and I also don't want to over order food, what is the best way to go about finding out if people plan to attend. I don't feel right asking the bride for phone numbers, because I don't want her to feel like no one wants to come.
Confused Maid of Honor