My wedding is sceduled for May and has been for a year. My sister recently told me she is pregnant. Her and her husband said they were going to wait before trying to have kids, but after 3 months of marraige, here comes a little one. Sis hasn't said anything, but my stepmom said my sis probably won't be able to afford the dress with the new baby (will be about 6 weeks old at the wedding). I mentioned to my sister that if it's too much I can find someone else and she can help with other things. She flipped on me, saying she'd afford it somehow.
I don't want to put them in a tight spot, but with all my other expenses, I just can't afford her dress also. I wouldn't be mad at her if she wanted to bow out, but I need to know because I do have a "back-up bridesmaid" i can ask, but I need to give her time to buy the dress also. What should I do? I want my sister to be in my wedding and be happy, but I don't want her to tell me last minute that she can't afford it.