So the title speaks for itself.. one of my bridesmaids asked me if she can change out of her bridesmaid dress for the reception. I was completely caught off guard when she asked me, because of all the weddings I've been in and attended as a guest, I've never heard of or seen anyone do this.
I would totally understand if she felt uncomfortable in the dress.. BUT.. we haven't even picked them out yet.. much less gone for fittings, etc...
Since I was caught off guard, I stammered, and said to her "uhh, yea I don't see why not." Now I am regretting it. The photographer will be taking pics all night and I want them to all keep the dress on. Once the reception is over, I don't care if all 10 of them change into their pajamas.
How do I tell her that I would like her to stay in the dress without sounding like a demanding Bridezilla, especially after already kinda telling her I was ok with it?