We're just over a week until the wedding and my mom keeps telling me how worried she is that my MOH is trying to up-stage my groom and I on our wedding day. I keep trying to ignore as I have more important things to worry about right now and I'm convinced if MOH really is trying too it'll only make her look like a chump on our wedding day... not reflect badly on us. However, my Mom being protective keeps telling me I need to reign MOH in.
What she has done (keeps doing) is calling me to tell me changes she is making so that she can look better and stand out at our wedding. She went to have final alterations on her dress and had the seamstress add a white sash with some "bling" to really make her stand out (her dress is already a different style than anyone else's for the purpose of "being different"). She called to let me know she is leaving after make-up to have her hair done by her stylist so that she can look her best and because he's adding some rhinestone accessories to again "stand out". She complained about having make-up done (completely optional and not required) and keeps telling everyone she's doing it for me but if it looks bad she's washing it off and doing it herself. And is complaining about how much she spent on undergarments to make her look skinny (again optional - she paid more than me to "look skinny" and I'm bigger than her). And these are just some of the things that has come up in the past 3 days.
Am I right in thinking that she's the one who would look bad and it won't take attention away from my fiance and I on our day? Or should I put my foot down as my mom is suggesting? I just don't want to start any arguments right before our wedding.