Ok the story is that my mom had assumed that she would be walking me down the aisle since i dont know my father. I dont have a grandfather or an uncle that could take that place. But I informed my mother on a wedding outing that she would not be walking me down the aisle and that my brother who i just met about 5 months ago would be doing it. She got upset with me and didnt talk to me for a week. But she would like her ex husband, who has no relationship to me and that i have only seen twice and talked to 4 times in my entire 25yrs of life, walk me down the aisle instead of my brother.. I really want my brother to do it because thats the closest thing that i'll have to my father actuallly doing it... So this has been goin on about 2 months and Ive chosen to leave this subject alone until it gets closer to my wedding to deal with it. SO i just need advice on actually what i can do!!!! But she did say that she would rather me walk down the aisle by myself that "to have that brother" of mine to walk me down the aisle.. HELP!!!! I dont want to lose my mother over this...