I'm Pagan. Now that that's out of the way, this might make more sence. My BM are the four closest people in my life. I asked them to be my BM and told them that they would need to "call corners" durring the ceremony. All of them agreed and said they would love to.(is that the right form of to?) Anyway, fast forward to yesterday. I was talking to one of my BM and she was asking questions about the wedding. I was explaining certen parts and she said "That's stupid, why can't you do things normal?" I was very offended by that and told her it was part of my religion. She told me that she can't believe I TRICKED her into being in a Pagan ritual...like we were going to sacrifice a lamb or something!(we don't do animal sacrifices) I said "if you feel that stongly, I understand if you need to drop out." Today, on my way to work, I get a phone call from my mom saying she's offended that I'M so close-minded about other people religion, and I need to suck it up and see if my BM will come back into my wedding party. WTF??? Am I alone in thinking that this is total BS?