Ok...my sister in law has asked to be a bridesmaid in her upcoming wedding. The wedding is in 5 months but they have been planning for close to 10 months. Other than being asked to be a bridesmaid I have not been involved at all. Is it rude of me to expect more involvement from the bride or should I not worry about it? She has already got a dress and most of the wedding planned. Also, she has elected to have her bridal shower the weekend of my 1 year anniversary with my husband. When she did not invite me dress shopping with her other bridesmaid, friends, mother, fmil and a few family friends, I politely reminded that I would like to be involved but nothing has happened since then?