My mother likes my FI, however she is struggling to help us financially and emotionally. My FI and I are taking care of most of the wedding on our own. My FI's family is helping us with food and hosting the wedding on their property which is great! My mother said she'd take care of the rehearsal dinner, but that's it. She is supposed to be walking me down the aisle since my father passed away when I was a kid. I'm not sure I'm comfortable with this if she isn't involved with the wedding. I asked her to help with some of the alcohol costs and she flipped out. Any advice?