I had 2 shower planned on in my home town and one in the town I moved to as a teenager and worked there for years. The first one was given by my cousin/personal attendent. I invited my grooms mother and sister in law. His sister in law had to work and could not attend. My FMIL thinks that she is a photographer, and when I introduced her to my cousin she like attacked her about
"did she know her responsibilities to the photographer" I was so imberassed. Then he told my cousin that she would not pass on a piece of paper. She actually said that she did not want to. Now when I got back home she has decided that she is going to give me a shower less than a month before the wedding. Like I want to be thinking about that. I really have no problem with her having a shower. But it would have been nice to have been asked when worked for me. I was told that it would be this day and that is was being worked around an aunts schedule. I'm stressed about alot of things and I dont want this to add to that. How do I tell her that I think it is a little close to the wedding.