Hello Ladies!
so my BIG question is in regards to who to invite to the rehearsal dinner?
Our rehearsal dinner is on a thursday followed by the wedding held on saturday. I always thought the rehearsal dinner was for the bridal party and a nice gesture to invite the out of town guests that have traveled here by Thursday.
My fiance wants to invite EVERYONE... the bridal party, the out of town guests, the families/relatives hosting the out of town guests AND our aunts/uncles that live local.
On the small end, we're looking at a total of maybe 30 people, but if we go with what my FI wants, we are looking at 60-70 people... Also, to note, money is not the issue.
I'm pretty firm on my opinion because i dont want a mini wedding 2 days before the wedding. Plus while this is a nice gesture its completely not necessary.
We had a big engagement party and are havnig a big wedding...and for once i want something to be somewhat small and somewhat private too.
i have a ton of other cousins who've gotten married and the invitation was never extended to us or anyone other than those in the bridal party. I know everyone does what they want but i also disagree with the idea of having all these people at the rehearsal dinner--- thats not the purpose of the rehearsal dinner.
My FI agrees its not necessary and will go along with what i want but now i feel bad getting my way.
Help please... i need opinions and feedback on this.