I'm trying to go as low key as possible... think family BBQ except me and honey are dressed nice. Outdoor, mountain wedding, BBQ buffet, s'mores around the campfire, everyone drinking, eating, relaxing and having a good time. No bridal party, no toasts, no first dance... no DJ. I am having guests write on the RSVP their 'our song' or 'first dance' song and I'll be playing the iPod. But I just thought of this... what about music for the ceremony? Have someone man the iPod to cue it at the right time? Anybody have advice about a low key wedding like this or advice about the 'iPod DJ'?