So i am not yet engaged we are waiting till we go get rings either this weekend or the next. but we have planned on who we want in our wedding. we decided we didnt want his lil sister in the wedding b/c she is A.D.D. (which isnt like horrible cuz my bf had it) but she is unbareable sometimes and i personally cant handle it. But my bfs older estranged <kinda) half sister is a bridesmaid. My bfs family is really overstepping and likes to try to make decisions for him and i cant stand it. we havent announced anything about getting married offically or the wedding party for that matter. but when we do i think that we are going to have some problems. what do i do. I dont wanna hurt anyones feelings but i dont wanna be overstressed with his family on our day! this is my wedding not theirs. I think if i have his lil sister in the wedding she will make it unbareable and i dont wanna have to deal with that on my day. but now for not putting her in the wedding im gonna hear it from his mom and gpa and gma so what should i do? How do i handle it when they get upset that shes not in the wedding.