Of course we love each other but this is a problem of wedding planning, he did not want anything elegant and I was fine with that, we found a place that would pretty much take care of everything but now he has a hard time with being introduced into the reception and making his parents be introduced and walk in front of so many people. It kills me because these are our guests and not strangers! Not sure how to tell him this is non-negotiable. He was raised in a home where everything happened in their basement, birthdays, baby showers, everything! so he has been taught that there is no need to dress up, be in the spotlight or even take credit for his accomplishments.