My best friend is a guy. But he is also my ex. I know many people would think it's messed up but we are best friends. My FI and him get along great and he would love for him to be in our wedding. He saw me through the death of both my parents. I'm 27 and my mom died last year and dad in 2009. He has always been a great friend and he says I'm like a sister. We broke up over two years ago. Would it be hard for him or wrong of me to ask, he mentioned it but not sure if he was joking. I'm also concerned with people gossiping and drama. But through caring for my parents after college my life has been spent w them and close friendships are limited.