So my parents divorced while I was in college My mother is an amazing, head strong woman who hates my father. My father calls about once a month, doesn't think he ruined the relationship with my mother and cares a lot about himself, but he is my father. I recently mentioned to my mom that he was going to be part of my wedding and asked her if she had a problem with both of them walking me down the aisle. She loudly refused. Furthermore my mom is fitting most of the bill for the wedding. I feel guilty choosing one and I really want both. any advice?