2 MOH's

missbrittanymichelle

I am so torn between choosing either my sister or my best friend as my MOH. I really want to have both! I was my best friend's MOH, but my sister's never been married so it's not like I have to return the favor (if you wanna put it that way)? I really want them both to be my MOH's but I don't want to hurt either of their feelings. Please help! Thanks girls.

tidetravel

Ask them both to be MOHs.  Or, don't have a MOH at all, and just ask them to be BMs.  If they ask why you don't have a MOH, tell them that you didn't want to have to choose between two people that you love.

mysticl

Since your friend is married and your sis isn't have a Matron of Honor and a Maid of Honor. 

JadziaDax

I agree you can have two maid of honor's. If you want to choose just one though, pick your sister. She is family.
Also, you don't need to choose someone to be your maid of honor to "return a favor".

kimp67

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_wedding-party_2-mohs-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:37Discussion:08fbac62-940d-4c20-b2d7-a4f58bd44a1cPost:73679366-09e1-43f2-b694-e26a0d335d12">Re: 2 MOH's</a>:
[QUOTE]Since your friend is married and your sis isn't have a Matron of Honor and a Maid of Honor. 
Posted by mysticl[/QUOTE]

This is what I would do

valeriemay85

Yes have them both!! I have two because I couldn't choose between my sisters!

wegsmom

I agree with everyone here...I'm having one of each myself.  My cousin (like my big sister) is my Maid of Honor and my best friend is my Matron of Honor.

Best of luck to you!

bablingbrooke

Why would it hurt their feelings to make them both MOH?  I think it's a lovely idea.

dawnmarie1279

I am having two!
One is married, so she is my matron of honor & the other is my maid of honor. My fiance has two brothers, so we have 2 on each end! Worked out perfect!