I wanted to include my friend in the wedding planning and ask her to be in charge of that day making sure the details are correct instead of having her be a bridesmaid because i have no idea where her life will be in 8 months, meaning she will probably being going through a divorce. Her life is a mess right now including cutting off people who love and care for her. Before I could ask her to be a part of it she sent me an email saying how upset and hurt she is because shes not in the wedding, I tried to call and text her to talk and she won't take my phone calls. Anyone else have this problem? There seems to be so much drama involved with who you ask you think people would just be happy to be invited?!