Did the bride with the "lousy" MOH DD?

banana468

I wonder if she "gets it" yet.

Mrs.B6302007

Yeah, over an hour ago.

salt78

Yeah she did. It's really unfortunate that so many girls that act that way DD their posts too. I don't even think that anyone was particularly mean perse...they were just honest. If the OP reads this, I really wish you had left up your post so that other brides could read it and learn how NOT to treat their wedding party.

kkemper74

Can I ask what DD means?  And no one was mean, just brutally honest...probably didn't get the whole story anyway.

Leah&Christian09

What was the story?  I missed it.

michelle1433

What does DD mean?

Mrs.B6302007

Dirty Delete as in deleting your whole thread

Mrs.B6302007

L&C - MOH wasn't doing enough for bridebride paid for her own bparty up front (so she would get one) and expected her girls to pay her back

jeannigirl

I would have to tell her she needs to put down the crack pipe. Why does people get upset when people DD their own stuff, just curious. I would think that we should have the right to delete stuff we write. I know that most people will delete when they know that they are being totally a bridezilla or they get p***ed off with responses that they don't like.

banana468

Wasn't the bride michelle1433??

Mrs.B6302007

Yup.  And she now knows what DDing is

Mrs.B6302007

Why does people get upset when people DD their own stuff, just curious. I would think that we should have the right to delete stuff we write. I know that most people will delete when they know that they are being totally a bridezilla or they get p***ed off with responses that they don't like.Because they don't have the right to delete OUR stuff.

banana468

Exactly Mrs.B.  1) DDing is rude2) By doing so, you're deciding for the rest of us that OUR posts are now deleted as well.3) Others can't learn from your post.4) It looks like you can't handle criticism

Mrs.B6302007

5) it's an internet tantrum

jeannigirl

I didn't think about it in that context but that does make total sense, thanks for clarifying my question. Internet tantrum totally.

banana468

Exactly.It's a very childish way of 'having the last word'."If you won't agree with me then fine!  You don't get to post in this thread.  So there!"

duckie1905

Awwww, sad. No one was willing to validate her craptastic behavior.

yuodelj

I must admit that I went bridzilla at first and got a bunch of "snarky" responses to a post. I didn't realize I was being a 'zilla when I posted it...I was upset and  was asking for advice...so I was watching the thread carefully. Well when everyone ripped me a new one I DD'd to make it stop...Honestly, it was making me cry and I couldn't see how it was helpful....at the time.Anyways FF...something sunk in, but I still understand the dding....just a little....although now I wish that some wouldn't because the next day someone posts the EXACT SAME THING and gets the same responses. THAT'S frustrating....