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Bridal Party gifts..Is this cheesy?

I seem to have fallen a bit for the personalized bridal party attire - you know the t-shirts etc. that say MOH, BM, FGIs this a cheesy thing to include in the bridal party gift? I think it would be fun to give them to the bridal party for when we go to get our nails done the day before the wedding, and hair and makeup the day of. Personally I've never rec'd anything like this as a bridesmaid, but I would have thought it was fun.. but I'm a serious cheeseball and I don't know if everyone would be so cool about it - assuming that I'm cool that is ;) 

Re: Bridal Party gifts..Is this cheesy?

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    Maybe you could give them out if you are having a bach party and then they could get two uses out of them?!
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    ooo la la.. good thinking
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    Honestly, if a bride gave me that as my ONLY gift then I'd thank her but I'd only wear them once before they were in the sleepy attire rotation.  If that's the only gift, I'd appreciate it but I do think it falls into the lazy gift giving category.
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    Oh, no.. defiantely not the only gift. I'm going to give them each something unique and personal.. meaningful...but alongside that a gift bag with fun stuff in it (t-shirts would be included here)..  My main concern about the t-shirts is that they may be like "I'm not wearing that!" lol would you wear it if you got it? Not outside the wedding festivities of course... but to get manis and pedis or to the bachelorette party as above etc? Or would you be mortified to wear it? 
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    I'd be fine wearing it as long as it was figure flattering and a color I liked - however I'd poll the ladies to see what they thought.  Those sorts of things can go either way. 
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    excellent point Banana... You're right.. If it were me I'd hate to feel obligated to wear something that didn't look decent on me. I will poll and if they think it's fine I'll be sensitive to make choices that will flatter.  Good thinking... Thanks
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    I hate to be a poop, but when someone makes me wear something that I didnt know I was going to have to wear, I get a little pissy and even fight having to wear it.
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    Personally, I'd probably wear it, and hate every second of it.  I don't wear tee shirts, and one with an identifier like MOH would just be really high on the cheesetastic meter for me.
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    My sister gave me a T-shirt that said "bridesmaid" for her wedding.  I wore it for the bachelorette party, and then packed it away with all the other "sentimental" shirts that I'll never wear again (mainly team and club shirts from high school and college).If you really, really want to do this then go for it, but I personally think it's kind of a waste of money.
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    Yea would not wear something like that and def would not waste the money on that for my BP.
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    "would you wear it if you got it? Not outside the wedding festivities of course... but to get manis and pedis or to the bachelorette party as above etc? Or would you be mortified to wear it?" Personally, I think there are much better ways to spend your money than to dress your WP up like your entourage. I would never wear something like that, even if the bride asked me to do so.
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    I see where you could get enchanted by the idea of personalized stuff, but I think it's actually a waste of money. After your wedding, they won't be the MOH/BM/whatever anymore, and I can guarantee you that t-shirt will wind up in the pajama drawer. Personally, I already have a zillion sleepy t-shirts and don't need another -- and I suspect most women are in the same boat. Also, as PP said, they couldn't wear it to get their hair done, because they'll need to pull it over their heads to change, ruining the hairdo. Save the money and spend it elsewhere.
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    Ditto that anything that needs to be pulled over your head will ruin a hairstyle; they should all wear button-up shirts for that. I personally think this sort of thing works out best if the MOH or a BM suggest it and they all wear it of their own volition. That's just me though.
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    This is why it's awesome to have a place to go to ask these types of questions ;) I had an inkling it was overboard lol....See I would wear it and love it, but I'm the type of person that actually likes those knitted Christmas themed sweaters. I know I'm a rare case of juvenille sometimes... so that's why it's good to hear your opinions.Cheers ladies!
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    Personally, I'm picky about my own clothes and if I felt I'd be uncomfortable wearing the shirt, I wouldn't wear it. I would certainly not be be embarrassed... I mean, the other girls would be wearing them, too... it might even be fun.It's just, all girls have different body types,... and preferences on colors and styles...You might be better off getting them all matching tote bags they could all use the day of and many people could use them afterwards, too. Or maybe matching pins or something?
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    Honestly I hate these sorts of things and find then cheesy and a smidge like hey you are not yourself anymore just a member of my entourage.  If you are ok withthe following 1. they might hate wearing it and only do so to make you happy 2. it will never get worn again 3.they might not find it fun and instead tease you about this choiceThen it is acceptanble but just not ideal.
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