Okay so here goes- I LOVE my FH's family. they are some of the nicestest kindest people I know, I only have 1 problem. His 6 yo little sister is going to be our flower girl and she's adorable- but my FMIL insists upon making her FG dress.... and normally that would be okay but recently I saw the dress that was made for her for another family wedding from before I was in the picture and I was, a little let down. I wouldn't mind paying for the FG dress if I can choose something I really like, but I don't in any way want to hurt my FMIL's feelings. I really do love them. So do I just keep my mouth shut or do I try to find some really nice way to let my FMIL down? I already got with my fiance and we toldher that she wouldn't be baking our wedding cake because "We want her to sit back, enjoy the wedding and be able to relax, baking the cake would just be too much stress" I love that they are great at the DIY thing, and some things I am totally willing to budge on, but when my FSIL (who is 6) and I went shopping to look for my dress she picked out one she loved and said she wanted it and she "doesn't want Mommy to make it".... I don't want to step on any toes, I just want EVERYONE to have a great time and feel beautiful and relaxed- but if the little one isn't happy- nobody will be. HELP!!!!