So I have already had to call two people and tell them that they couldn't bring parents, dates, etc because we didn't have space, $, and oh yeah, THEY WERE NOT INVITED!!! So today a guy that my FI and I used to work with RSVP's for himself plus one. His invitation clearly stated only his name. IT DID NOT SAY "AND DATE". So I call my FI and ask him to call this guy and let him know that although we would love him to come we aren't able to extend the invitation to his date. This man is a total player, isn't married, isn't engaged, and doesn't have a serious girlfriend. His date would have probably been some random chick. Anyways, so my FI starts going off abut how rude it is to tell him he can't bring a date. Are you kidding? What's rude is RSVPing for a date when one wasn't invited!!! He finally said he would do it, but wasn't very happy about it. Does he think that I enjoyed calling the other two people and telling them the same thing? I just wanted to tell him to suck it up and just do it. Ugh! Sorry for the super long vent, needed to get it out of my system. Oh and to top it all off, his family from Mexico City that he assured me wouldn't come, but was polite to send an invite, just informed him that they were coming. GRRRRR!!!