I just need to vent. I asked my sister who lives across the country if she would like to be a BM. She said yes and seemed excited. Now she is complaining about everything. First it was about the style of BM dress (she called me a Bridezilla because I picked the style), then about having to have it altered (she wanted to do it herself, I said NO, it is too complicated). I have paid for her dress and alterations because she doesn't have much money but she is still complaining. Then she called to ask about hotels. I told her the hotel where we have reserved a block of rooms. She doesn't want to stay there, she would rather stay somewhere "more historical". She got angry when I told her the girl doing our hair and makeup wanted to start at 8 am (she doesn't want to get up that early). Then she mentioned the wedding to her ex-husbands father and asked him if he was invited. I hadn't planned on inviting him because I have only met him a few times and am not really close to him (we are trying to keep the wedding small). Now I feel like I have to invite him. The final straw was last night when she told me she was stressed from all the planning (trying on a dress, alterations, traveling). I lost it. I have been pulling my hair out for the last year and a half planning this wedding and trying to keep everyone else happy. I told her that if it would be easier for her she didn't have to be a BM. She is still insisting she wants to be in the party. I just can't take anymore of her complaining! Thanks for listening.