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MOH...need help please!

NoellesmamaNoellesmama
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Our wedding will be next June (2011) we have a total of 9 couples, not including our 1 Jr. bm and 1Jr. gm. Anywho, I have a questions about the wedding party...I have 1 maid of honor and FI has 1 best man. Would it be ok for me to have 2 Matrons of Honor in addition to the maid of honor, without FI having 2 more best men? Or do we need to choose 2 more bestman along with the original MOH and Best Man? Sorry if it is confusing :)
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Re: MOH...need help please!

  • bablingbrookebablingbrooke member
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    They do not have to be mirror images of each other.  You have as many MsOH as you want, FI has as many BM as he wants.  The titles are honorary and 90% of the guests won't notice (or, really, care) who the MOH is.  Remember that wedding dance video on youtube from last year?  They had 2 MsOH but, as far as I could tell, only one BM.
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  • NoellesmamaNoellesmama
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    Ok, thanks! FI had a hard enough time picking his best man. LOL... didn't want to stress him out anymore :)
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  • gottahavashortigottahavashorti member
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    I think it would be strange to have more maids/matrons of honor than bridesmaids, but otherwise uneven sides are fine as is 2 MOH and one Best Man or vice versa.  No MOH/Best Man is also fine even if the other side has one.
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  • Beachy730Beachy730 member
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    I think it would be fine.  But to be honest with you, I never understood why people have more than one matron of honor of maid of honor.  Or the people who have one of each.  Every woman in my BP was someone I was very close with, and my aunt was my Matron of Honor.  I was undecided at first between her and my closest friend as maid of honor, but I went with my aunt because in the past few years we have been much closer.  The only thing she did different at my wedding than the other BM's was stand next to me at the altar when the other girls were in a pew, and she signed the license.  I just don't understand why there needs to be more than one.  Also, if I were one of the other BM's I would wonder if you had multiple MsOH why I wasn't good enough to be promoted either.
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