My FSIL has been wanting to have another baby. Her daughter is 15 months old and she's been talking about another one for close to a year. When she was pregnant, she was hospitalized because of high blood pressure and ended up delivering at 32 weeks. It was a rough pregnancy for her and there's a good chance that would happen again, but in the back of everybody's mind, there's always that possibility it could be worse.
Anyway, a couple months ago, we went BM dress shopping and we had decided on dresses and when we were leaving I told her she wasn't allowed to get pregnant until closer to the wedding because "even though the dress makes you look thin, it doesn't hide everything" I said it jokingly, but I still can't believe I actually said it. I told my FI I felt bad I said it, but he and FMIL and other FSIL all think I did the right thing because they don't want her getting pregnant again.
Tonight, we were all over at FMIL's house because it's FSIL's birthday and I was watching her because I felt like she was acting different. She was holding herself differently, I noticed what seemed like her doing her best to keep from getting sick and she had been wanting to go to Disney for her birthday this weekend, but then uses the weather as an excuse not to go. It could all just be my imagination and I could be wrong, but I have a suspicion that she may be pregnant. Gone were the mental freakouts that she wouldn't fit in her dress, or she would be in the hospital on bed rest. Instead, I was thinking about what kind of horizon blue maternity dress she could get and how cute she would be up at the altar. Last week, FMIL told me if she were to get pregnant, I should just kick her out. My response was "I would never do that! She'd just have to get a different dress. And she can sit down if she needs to during the ceremony."
Before these boards, I started things off somewhat wrong with almost everything, but now I don't care what happens, or who doesn't show. As long as my FI makes it to the church and we're married at the end of the day, that's all that matters. So I want to thank you guys for changing my attitude on so many things!