So, I made a rash decision and chose my MOH to be someone who I think was much more interested in the title then being my best friend. This is a girl I've known since I was in 8th grade, and whom I've considered a good friend since then. However - I've come to some harsh realizations with a few things, especially after asking her to be MOH about a month ago.
It's a big no-no to change this decision isn't it? I guess my DF has had some say in this in that he just doesn't really understand why I chose to ask her. He's pointed out a few things that were hard for me to come to terms with. Such as, I was in her wedding as a guest book attendant, how the most I had heard from her was when I used to do her hair for free, and that she wants me to come over when it seems she has something to paint, or needs help moving her furniture around. I guess in the beginning I asked her b/c I knew that she'd be great at planning, and would be able to give me a bridal shower and bachelorette party that I'd be proud of. However ... now with her newly developed singledom (after obsessing over her own wedding) and now is seperated a year later ... it seems as if she has all the time in the world to go out with her new fun, partying friends, then she does to get together with me. She hasn't really asked how the planning is going, or how our engagement shoot was, and I've had to initiate a text/phone call since asking.
Anyone else regretted? I still have 10 months before my wedding too!! Advice??