So I had some really nice gifts planned out for my bridesmaids, but they have done nothing but add stress onto me. They tell they want to do one thing I follow through and make the appt for them or set a date and then something comes up and they cant make it or they change there mind its not good enough everytime. Neither one has paid me back for there dresses even though they promised and it was in there budget. they made my mom pay for bachlorette party and wedding shower after they offered to throw it and pay for it. One had said she liked the shoes but now everytime she wears them she tells me how much she hates them, and they picked them out!
I guess I just feel they dont deserve a gift, is that wrong of me to think that?
should I give them a gift anyways and just deal with it?