So, I officially asked one of my very best friends to be my MOH. I love her to death, but she's already running away with ideas. She went as far as saying she had the BM dresses picked out already.
I kind of feel that she didn't get the exact wedding she wanted, and is therefore planning mine with that in the background. I love her, and I couldn't be more exstatic that she's this excited. I guess I'm just asking for advice/ideas to kind of "head her off at the pass" and remind her that this is MY & MY FIANCE'S wedding.
Relatedly, I was thinking of asking 2 other friends - both of whom I love - to be BMs. However, one is in the middle of planning her wedding and the other is an 8+ -hour drive away. I really really want them to be in the BP, but I also don't want them to feel obligated to spend tons of money on travel or be at every single event related to the wedding. Advice??