HELP!
My fiance (after months of debating) has finally chosen his best man and I can't STAND him. My fiance knows that we do not get along at all. He's tried to put us together in group dinners and outings to ease the tension and have everyone "play nice" for his benefit, but it hasn't worked for a variety of reasons.
This weekend, my groom and I had dinner with the best man and a few of my fiance's friends. He decided to make an extremely hurtful remark about my mother in front of everyone that sent me running to the bathroom to avoid tears. That was the tip of the icberg for me.
My fiance said he no longer will "hang out" with both of us at the same time because it always ends badly. He admits what his friend said was wrong, but says his decision is made and this guy is FOR SURE the best man at the wedding!!!
What do I do?! I can't imagine this guy saying anything nice about our relationship or about me during his speech and every wedding function that we are both present at will be tension-filled.
HELP!