I have two MOHs. I absolutely loved both of them, until tonight.
My FI had been acting very strange for the past 2 days. He would leave the house about 30 minutes before he had to. And wouldn't get home until at least an hour after he normally did. He told me he had a lot on his mind, so I let him have his space, told him I was here if he needed to talk and never said anything else to him about it. I figured if/when he needed to talk he would eventually come to me about it.
He finally came to me tonight and wanted to talk.
Apparently one of my MOHs told him that I was cheating on him with my ex bf. She went into detail as to where and what we did. He had all the texts saved in his phone. FI said he knew it wasn't true, but he was scared that my MOH was going to flip it around him. So he pulled up the Verizon website and every text in his inbox lined up with what was on the screen, nothing had been deleted from his phone, and you can't delete anything off the website.
I'm not cheating on him, nor have I ever. I strongly believe in leaving the relationship you're in before stooping to that level. I don't understand how 25 year old girls come up with stuff like this. I mean we have been best friends for 8 years. And not once has she ever done anything like this. Just last Friday we went bowling and Saturday we got our nails done together. It's like she's a completely different person.
As of now, I haven't said anything to her. I'd rather sit down with her, like adults, and ask her why she would do such a thing. And I want to do it with FI there. I don't want it to be a he said/ she said fiasco. Or should I just print the records off verizon and take FI's phone instead?