Well, let me start by saying that my best friend since 2006 is my maid of honor and my 15-years-older-than-me sister is my maitron of honor... and I'm at a complete loss with both of them.
My Maid of honor really has no interest or drive to help me. She is too wrapped up in her own boyfriend and her own life to really care. I have been best friend with her almost 7 years- but as of lately we have drifted apart. We still love eachother but its so much different.
My maitron of honor is my sister, and we barely have a realtionship what so ever. When she got married I wsa her flower girl, and at that time we were best friends. I always looked up to her and she was my hero. Now... 15 years later... we barely talk. She is overly jealous of what I have and is as cold as ice. I have been told that i "HAVE" to have her in my bridal party.. but it just doesnt feel right. She doesnt call, text, or even email me and she thinks this is all stupid ( becasue it isnt about her).
I need to figure out what to do.. becasue these are the two women that are supposed to be helping me the most. But they just dont care.
What should I do?! Should I tell them how I feel? Should I just ignore their behavior and suck it up?!