Hi!
I have been lurking on here for a little while and I find that you ladies give great advice! I have a question that has been bothering me for a little while.
When my fiance and I first got engaged we had talked about having three people in our wedding party. The decision was easy for me, I wanted to have my only sister, my best friend, and his only sister. My fiance however had it really hard. He has 6 brothers and 2 very close friends and he could not make a decision. So after a few months he finally said it would be easier to just choose 2.
When this was happening, the idea of uneven sides had never occured to me. So I asked my sister and my friend like I had always thought I would. I left his sister out to make the sides even.
Now that I know it doesn't matter, I'm really kicking myself about it. I would really like to ask her if she would like to be in the party. With all her brothers (and she is the youngest too, poor girl), she has never been in one of their weddings before, so I think it would be great if she could be in ours! We haven't chosen dresses yet or anything so it wouldn't be an issue.
Here's my question: Can I ask her without making her feel as though she is second rate?
Thanks!