So my "problem" is that I have this friend that used to be my best friend. Before I got engaged she was super stoked about the probablility that I was going to get married. Well during the time where we stopped talking about the future possible wedding and the actual official future wedding she and her husbad decided to get divorce. For 3 months i did nothing but listen to what she had to say, then when i got egaged she was actaully sad that i was engaged. It was just assumed that se was going to be a BM (my sister is MOH). Now we hardly ever talk, when we do its about bad (imo) choices she is making in her life (seeing some one before she has even filed for a divorce as "friends until the divorce day" and things of that nature. I have to actaully start taling over her for her to hear anything im tryin to say. We used to be such good frends but now im afraid that she will do somthing to jepordise mine and my FI wedding day. I know taking her ot of the wedding will end our friendship and that is something im prepared for. But i dont know how to do it I also dont know if i should. This a phase and i know this is a phase that will pass but im am no willing to risk my wedding or any other event involving this wondrful occasion due to a phase my not so much bf is going thru. HELP PLEASE!!!!!
